Now it is a rare event when someone gives up his life even for the sake of somebody righteous, although possibly for a truly good person one might have the courage to die. 8 But God demonstrates his own love for us in that the Messiah died on our behalf while we were still sinners. Rom. 5: 7,8
Love is patient and kind, not jealous, not boastful, not proud, rude or selfish, not easily angered, and it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not gloat over other people's sins but takes its delight in the truth. Love always bears up, always trusts, always hopes, always endures. But for now, three things last: trust, hope, love; and the greatest of these is love. 1 Corinthians 13: 4-7, 13
Dragonball. There, I said it and I intend to use it to make a spiritual point. God uses the people in our lives to make way into our hearts. Through our loved ones, friends and even the people who make our lives less than pleasant, God softens us, teaches us to love and to practice patience. God's love most often comes in the guise of other people. I'd like to look at the best example of character development in the entire Dragonball saga, Piccolo.
In Dragonball, the boy Goku encounters and defeats an evil alien called King Piccolo. Before dying, Piccolo forms an egg filled with his life energy. The egg hatches and Piccolo's son emerges. Junior is stronger and more skilled than his father and has one goal: Kill Goku. He plans to defeat the young warrior at a martial arts tournament and then destroy him and take over the world. The battle between Goku and Junior is fierce and both are severely wounded, but Goku wins the tournament and prevents the alien from taking over. Piccolo, having been shown mercy once, begins to soften.
In Dragonball Z, Goku has a son whom he has named for the man who raised him as a boy, Gohan. We learn, along with Goku and his friends, that Goku is of an alien race called Saiyans; warriors who love the thrill of fighting. Originally, Goku was sent to earth to wipe its population out and make it ready for sale by space pirates. Having become a hero instead, his brother comes calling and kidnaps Gohan with the condition that Goku must begin killing the humans he's sworn to protect. The new threat means one thing to Piccolo: competition. Piccolo will not let anyone besides him take over the world, so he forms an alliance with Goku, planning to kill him later.
Goku sacrifices himself so that Radditz, his brother can be defeated. Piccolo got what he wanted. His competition and his greatest enemy are both out of the way but he can't shake being impressed by Goku's noble sacrifice. Two more powerful Saiyan warriors are on their way to avenge their comrade and destroy the earth and Goku's friends must ready themselves. Piccolo takes upon himself the task of training the young Gohan to fight. During the year of training, Gohan works his way into the villian's heart and Piccolo's desire for world domination fades. He's made a friend and has learned what it means to care for the well being of another person.
Gohan: "What am I supposed to do now?"
Piccolo: "Live, Gohan. Just live."
Gohan: "But I'm scared!"
Piccolo: "Hm. You'll laugh at your fears when you find out who you really are."
Piccolo knows better than Gohan that the little boy posesses great power. Piccolo's faith in the boy's abilities are tested, but Gohan begins to master his strength and, more importantly begins to befriend the green skinned alien. Piccolo's quest to train a warrior becomes a journey into a friendship that defines both characters through the rest of the series.
Selfishness and singlemindeness have a great enemy: Love. The hardened inmate learns to take care of an animal. The wild minded "living for me" young man meets the woman who will be his wife. The career oriented strong willed woman becomes a mother and all those high selfish plans melt in the clear blue eyes of an infant.
The year of training complete, Piccolo, Gohan and the other fighters meet the Saiyan Warriors. Goku has been wished back to life but he's running behind. The Saiyans prove too powerful for the earth's warriors and one by one, they are defeated. Gohan puts up a brave front but falters at a crucial moment. As one of the Saiyans, Nappa, is about to launch the death blow to Gohan, Piccolo steps in the way of the blast, taking the full force of the destructive energy wave. His last words to Gohan are "You were the first person who ever spoke decently to me." All it took to change Piccolo from the evil character first seen in Dragonball was a friend who cared about him. A little love goes a long way.
A person who is not taught to love or who is not shown love from an early age may grow into a very dangerous person. A boy without empathy, without the love of others will harm or kill animals and if left unchecked will most likely become a man who kills people. Love is as essential to us as breathing and eating. Without it, we are hollow inside and that space will be filled with darkness. Our parents whether by birth or adoption give us love when we cannot willfully give much back. Our friends teach us love and patience and tolerance. We choose one person in all of them to share a special love with and that person becomes our spouse. All of these experiences are holding up a mirror to the Originator of love, God Himself.
For God so loved the world that he gave his only and unique Son, so that everyone who trusts in him may have eternal life, instead of being utterly destroyed. John 3: 16
Love sought Adam out in the Garden after he fell from grace.
Love preserved one man, Noah and his family through the destruction of the wickedness that filled the earth.
Love called Abraham to follow The Lord and make a family of decietful scounderels into a holy nation.
Love caused the prophets to call the nation of Israel to turn from her idolatry and evil ways back to God.
Love came down one night and took human form, inviting lowly shepherds and rich mens' advisors to greet a new King.
Love brought tax collectors, fishermen and religous zealots together to follow a new Teacher and learn about the Kingdom of God.
Love led Christ to die a criminal's death though He was innocent of any wrongdoing.
Love conquered death and with it our sin, paving the way for us to be made righteous through the blood of Christ.
When we've been in Heaven for ten thousand years, one theme will usher from our lips: Love.

